Yolanda Salazar-Torres: A Pillar for Her Family and the Latine Community: Familia y Comunidad (Part 1 of 2)
(Above): Yolanda Salazar-Torres today (Below): Yolanda Salazar-Torres in her Mexican Military uniform
By Jonathan Gramling
The story of Yolanda Salazar-Torres mirrors the stories of so many people who have emigrated to the U.S., sometimes taking a step or two back before moving forward in their lives. And she has witnessed the growth and evolution of the Latine community in Madison.
Salazar-Torres was born in Morelia, Mexico in the state of Michoacán. But when she was five-years old, her family moved to Mexico City.
“I grew up in a very poor neighborhood,” Salazar-Torres said. “My father was in the army in Mexico. I was at home. I am the oldest. There were 10 children, five boys and five girls. After a while, my father got a house on the military base close to his work. Then we moved to a very nice house, better than the other houses where we had been living.”
As the oldest child, Salazar-Torres felt the necessity of helping the family survive economically. And so at 14 years-old, she began to work at the military base and was a quasi-member of the military.
“I worked in the offices,” Salazar Torres said. “If you are working in the office, you’re kind of a soldier in the field. We had to have discipline and training. I worked in the main offices that the army had. They had a huge
building and a military field where the line soldiers trained. But the work in the offices was totally different.”
At 17-yeard-old, Salazar-Torres got married and left the military.
“I left the army, got married and had my first child,” Salazar-Torres said. “And then I stayed at home. I had Teresa, my second girl. She had a problem with one of her legs. Then I needed to go back to the army because she needed doctors and the medical services. Then I started working at the military hospital. And then they promoted me to the medicine medical school. I was working in the offices too. I worked there for 11 years while my children were growing up. I was working in the military school.”
Due to the need to get a job at 14 years-old, Salazar had stopped her education when she was in middle school. Eventually, as an adult, she was able to resume her studies.
“It was very hard because of the schedules and the hours,” Salazar-Torres said. “I had to be there at 6 a.m. Sometimes I needed to do the bulletins first thing in the morning. They had a place for children. My children went to a public school close to the hospital. I worked there for 11 years. While I worked there, I was studying. I went to middle school and high school. When I was in high school, Guillermo was with me in the high school. We went together.”
While she was working at the base, the Earthquake of 1985 devastated many parts of Mexico City.
“The earthquake was awful,” Salazar-Torres said. “Many buildings went down. We used to work in one of them and we had to move because the building went down. I was late for work fortunately. I was at my home almost ready to leave for work. Teresa and Patricia were here in Madison. But Guillermo was there. And I remember when the earthquake happened, you couldn’t recognize the neighborhood because the buildings were kind of sandwiched down. Salvador, my children’s father, got a huge club and he brought many different things to work looking for people. And then Guillermo decided to go and help. I didn’t know. It was terrible. I didn’t want to stay there. We went to one of my sister’s houses. She was my little sister. From there, we moved to our house in another neighborhood. It was my mother-in-law’s property. We never stayed again in the other building. Nothing happened in there, but I just didn’t want to stay there. It was awful.”
Salazar-Torres continued on with school after high school to study to be a lawyer.
“I went to the law school at the university, the National University of Mexico,” Salazar-orres said. “We needed to go to middle and high school and then go to school for four years for college. I continued to work in the social security work to look at many issues about the people applying. For example, someone sues you because you weren’t happy with the medical treatment.”
When her daughter, Teresa Tellez Giron, became pregnant with her daughter Yolanda, Salazar-Torres began to divide her time between Madison and Mexico City, getting leaves of absence from her job.
“When I was working in the law offices, sometimes I started to work with my children’s father,” Salazar-Torres said. “I was working on family issues like divorces. But I didn’t feel good working there. In Mexico, you have to give money to the people to ask for a file. For example, a mother wants the children and the other lawyer is defending the father. Sometimes the people working in the offices got money and you lost your case. I didn’t like it and I decided to stay here.”
Like many immigrants to the U.S., Salazar-Torres had to start from the beginning.
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